Just when we thought we had seen it all, a video clip of a lesbian lady proposing to her partner has surfaced online. The video posted on Instablog9ja shows the ladies initially singing a birthday song. From singing, they graduated to proposing. Lol. The clip later shows one of the girls kneeling down and offering her wife-to-be an engagement ring. She then kisses her partner, who bursts into emotional tears. Lagos-based Nigerian lady kneels, proposes to lesbian partner amid tears.
Ohhh noo, you would say, right? Wild. Repulsive. Barbaric. Absolutely abominable. These are some adjectives that many would readily adopt to describe the act of lesbianism anyday. But are Nigerian girls and ladies found in this act? Shhh! Yes. Please ask Miss Chidinma Okeke, former Anambra beauty queen.
If you think lesbianism is only prominent amidst the white folks, then you have to think again as you might just be making a big mistake. It is becoming a norm in Nigeria but of course, we won’t take it. A lot of these lesbians around now have been exposed to it right from their childhood and if you will be careful enough to monitor what goes on around you, you will soon submit to the adage that says “Charity begins at home.”
Lagos-based Nigerian lady kneels, proposes to lesbian partner amid tears
From archives, the word lesbian according to a Consultant psychologist with the Orphan and Vulnerable Children, Abuja, Mrs, Bola Babs, can refer to desire, an act of sexual intimacy involving two women. It is a term most widely used in the English language to describe sexual and romantic desire between females. “The word may be used as a noun, to refer to women who identify themselves or who are characterised by others as having the primary attribute of female homosexuality, or as an adjective, to describe characteristics of an object or activity related to female same-sex desire,” she said.
Speaking on some of the reasons why we have many ladies indulge in the act especially these days, Babs said some are into it either for adventure, which is a social reason; some, as a result of a disorder, anti-social or mental disorder, while generally, she attributed the desire to an act based on lack of the fear of God.
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“In spite of the level of our civilisation, Lesbianism, no matter what is abnormal and a shameful thing. That is why most of them in the habit cannot come out in the open to declare their habit. It is categorised under Sodomy and should be discouraged by all,” she said.
Historians since, have re-examined relationships between women in history, and have questioned what qualifies a woman or a relationship as lesbian. The result of such discussion has introduced three components to identifying lesbians: sexual behaviour, sexual desire, or sexual identity,”she added.
God wee epp us! Lol.